Advice from the Blackberry Patch

When I’m out for a wander around the Land where I live, I almost invariably pass Blackberry bushes. This time of year, the leaves are wine red and beautiful. The other day Blackberry had a strong message for me, reminding me that I know well how to deal with prickly people. Interesting. One should deal with prickly people as if they were blackberry bushes. Here’s what they said:

• Prickly people, like Blackberries, can provide an abundance of sweet fruit. It’s worth the trouble (usually).
• Don’t overdo it, or get exhausted from the interaction. Pace yourself.
• Wear protective gear: a good leather glove, heavy jeans, and long sleeves. Self-protection is as important with prickly people as with prickly blackberry canes.
• Wear solid footwear. This reminds me of Ephesians 6: 15, that along with the full armor of God (the belt of truth, the breastplate of righteousness, and the shield of faith), you should have your feet protected by the good news of peace.
• Know that the prickly person, just like Blackberries, will attempt to catch you in the brambles, to keep you from moving on your path. But preparation, like protective clothing, makes a big difference. Don’t let yourself be sticky like Velcro.
• Be prepared for stains. Don’t take your best dreams and aspirations into prickly relationships.
• Recognize that there will be injuries. You will be scratched, but scratches heal.
• Go into the patch/interaction when you are rested.
• Be open and receptive to receiving good fruit, even in prickly situations.
• Carry a grateful and expectant attitude.
• Watch for beauty all around.